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Title: Why aren't guy's my own age interested in me?
Why aren't guy's my own age interested in me?
I'm a 20 year old female and men my own age don't flirt with me. I don't get called cute, pretty, or attractive in any way. I've spent my whole life just never being attractive to men before. The last time I got called "cute" was over a year ago by some random guy at an event I was at. Most recently though, a much older man, in his late 30s, who I met at an event began flirting with me. We were playing a game that he was suppose to be an expert in, and I actual began beating him in it. He would just smile and say "damn your good" and "this girl's got some skills" and smile and wink at my friend, and we both laughed. He wasn't intimidated by me at all and actually challenged me in the game and thought it was cute when I would fumble (because I'd never played the game before). He made the night extremely fun because he was so relaxed and nice to us. I've honestly never felt sexier in my entire life then when I did talking to him.
It just sucks. My mom says I'm to intimidating. I'm a very confident girl. I'm not afraid to ask a guy out if I like him and to initiate a relationship (because I have in the past). I'm just so sick and tired of all these immature, insecure boys. I don't enjoy being the "initiator" at the beginning of relationships. A girl needs to feel like the guy finds her sexy and I don't understand why guys my own age can't speak their mind and let me know when they find me attractive. I know what I want, so why don't guys want me?
Answer:
First of all, I don't think you should be too hard on yourself; I'm sure you are a beautiful person. Secondly, I think the main reason why guys your age find you intimidating is because you are too mature and too confident for them. As a result, these guys feel that they are not good enough for you and move on. Personally, I think it is a good thing that you are like this - don't lower your standards or become immature simply to impress boys. In saying that, if you feel that you are turning guys off because of your personality/confidence, then try simply listening to what they have to say for longer periods of time. Although, it sounds silly people of both genders are always attracted to people who are good listeners as it allows them to express themselves and how they are feeling.
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